The importance of Plan B

After receiving Mum's diagnosis and facing some challenges in caring for her, I realised the importance of discussing 'Plan B' with my other family members, in case something happened to me.

Unfortunately, I wasn't reassured that anyone could take over my 'role'. Instead, Mum would likely be placed into a care home. I felt sad for Mum, but I had to understand everyone has their own reasons, and wants for their own lives.

So, I did what I could to cover myself in the event of an accident or emergency. I decided to carry a card with information indicating that I am a carer, with a vulnerable person at home. This could alert someone that Mum would be alone and potentially face difficulties, if I was not there. Registering with your local GP as a carer, also logs it on your personal file, if you were ever needed to be taken to hospital.

Additionally, I always carry the contact details of another person, whether this is a friend or family member, not just on my mobile phone, as not everyone can access it.

Lastly, I gave a spare key to our home, to someone I trust. This way, in an emergency, Mum could be safely retrieved from our house. Sadly if I was no more, I had done all I could, to get Mum in the hands of someone quickly.